"Virgin Island" Episode #1.3

1 00:00:02,000 --> 00:00:04,000 This programme contains strong language, 2 00:00:04,040 --> 00:00:06,040 nudity and scenes of a sexual nature 3 00:00:07,680 --> 00:00:10,480 12 virgins have travelled to a paradise island 4 00:00:10,520 --> 00:00:13,520 to take part in a unique experiment. 5 00:00:13,560 --> 00:00:16,960 The word virgin, people see it as a joke. 6 00:00:17,000 --> 00:00:18,400 It's quite upsetting. 7 00:00:19,760 --> 00:00:22,040 I'm 23, still a virgin. 8 00:00:22,080 --> 00:00:24,000 I feel like there's something wrong with me. 9 00:00:25,280 --> 00:00:27,680 In a world where sex is everywhere... 10 00:00:27,720 --> 00:00:29,000 My God. 11 00:00:29,040 --> 00:00:31,280 Terrified, absolutely terrified. 12 00:00:31,320 --> 00:00:33,200 ..the truth is surprising - 13 00:00:33,240 --> 00:00:35,640 there are more adult virgins than ever. 14 00:00:35,680 --> 00:00:39,440 Being a young adult in this day and age - it's difficult. 15 00:00:39,480 --> 00:00:40,880 Social media. Dating apps. 16 00:00:40,920 --> 00:00:42,680 Influencers. TV shows. 17 00:00:42,720 --> 00:00:44,080 Porn. Porn. Porn. Porn. 18 00:00:44,120 --> 00:00:45,640 Porn is everywhere. 19 00:00:45,680 --> 00:00:48,320 Are you self-conscious about our genitals touching each other? 20 00:00:48,360 --> 00:00:49,880 Now... Yeah. 21 00:00:51,200 --> 00:00:54,960 ..this radical retreat is offering a very hands-on solution. 22 00:00:55,000 --> 00:00:56,960 HE GROANS Ohh, yeah. 23 00:00:57,000 --> 00:00:58,320 She's a miracle worker! 24 00:00:58,360 --> 00:00:59,560 Woohoo. 25 00:00:59,600 --> 00:01:00,840 Oh, God, yes. 26 00:01:00,880 --> 00:01:02,680 Overseen by a group of experts... 27 00:01:02,720 --> 00:01:04,040 Yeah. Like that? 28 00:01:04,080 --> 00:01:05,200 I like that. 29 00:01:05,240 --> 00:01:08,680 ..ready to do anything to help Britain's virgins... 30 00:01:08,720 --> 00:01:11,160 There's the clitoris. 31 00:01:11,200 --> 00:01:13,040 Do you have any questions? 32 00:01:13,080 --> 00:01:14,640 ..lose the one thing... 33 00:01:14,680 --> 00:01:15,840 MOANING 34 00:01:15,880 --> 00:01:17,280 Do I make you feel nervous? 35 00:01:17,320 --> 00:01:19,040 ..they feel is holding them back. 36 00:01:19,080 --> 00:01:20,920 I would love to have sex with you. 37 00:01:20,960 --> 00:01:23,800 I do feel like there's a barrier between me and sex. 38 00:01:23,840 --> 00:01:25,680 I want to lose my virginity. 39 00:01:25,720 --> 00:01:27,040 It's now or never. 40 00:01:28,160 --> 00:01:30,640 But when the moment arrives... 41 00:01:30,680 --> 00:01:32,560 Would you like to move to the bed? 42 00:01:32,600 --> 00:01:35,160 ..who will be ready... 43 00:01:35,200 --> 00:01:37,520 I just don't want anyone to touch me. 44 00:01:37,560 --> 00:01:40,800 ..to go all the way? 45 00:01:40,840 --> 00:01:42,480 You're so sexy. 46 00:01:42,520 --> 00:01:43,760 Yes. Oh, yes. 47 00:01:49,920 --> 00:01:51,080 MOANING 48 00:01:51,120 --> 00:01:52,960 The last few days on Virgin Island 49 00:01:53,000 --> 00:01:56,080 saw a focus on intimate touch. 50 00:01:56,120 --> 00:01:58,040 It was like watching a porno. That's necessary? 51 00:01:58,080 --> 00:02:01,600 We can explore the things that you came here to explore. 52 00:02:01,640 --> 00:02:04,680 It made Taylor, who identifies as bi-sexual... 53 00:02:04,720 --> 00:02:05,800 I'm scared. 54 00:02:05,840 --> 00:02:07,560 ..confused about her feelings. 55 00:02:07,600 --> 00:02:09,800 I'm sorry. Can I just have one minute? 56 00:02:11,840 --> 00:02:13,040 And when Ben... 57 00:02:13,080 --> 00:02:14,360 What does it feel like to you? 58 00:02:14,400 --> 00:02:15,400 Bewitching. 59 00:02:15,440 --> 00:02:17,120 ..fell under Charlotte's spell... 60 00:02:17,160 --> 00:02:18,520 Yeah, all right. I'll do it, then. 61 00:02:18,560 --> 00:02:20,200 ..he was rejected. 62 00:02:20,240 --> 00:02:21,440 This is my friend, 63 00:02:21,480 --> 00:02:23,680 but I'm not interested. 64 00:02:23,720 --> 00:02:26,240 Now, as they enter the next phase, 65 00:02:26,280 --> 00:02:27,760 things are hotting up. 66 00:02:27,800 --> 00:02:29,360 That felt good. 67 00:02:29,400 --> 00:02:32,200 Confidence is really key to this group of people. 68 00:02:32,240 --> 00:02:36,000 And I am ready to make them be able to look into someone else's eyes 69 00:02:36,040 --> 00:02:37,880 and just go after what they want. 70 00:02:37,920 --> 00:02:39,240 LAUGHTER 71 00:02:39,280 --> 00:02:40,520 Feels nice. 72 00:02:42,000 --> 00:02:48,074 Do you want subtitles for any video? -=[ ai.OpenSubtitles.com ]=- 73 00:02:53,120 --> 00:02:54,960 Good morning. Morning. Morning. 74 00:02:55,000 --> 00:02:57,720 It's another day on Virgin Island. 75 00:02:57,760 --> 00:02:59,040 Oh, here we go. 76 00:02:59,080 --> 00:03:01,760 And the start of a new two-day phase of the course. 77 00:03:04,520 --> 00:03:08,720 The next phase of the course is all about confidence. 78 00:03:12,920 --> 00:03:14,880 Everything here is making me nervous, 79 00:03:14,920 --> 00:03:16,480 {\an8}so, yeah, just another one 80 00:03:16,520 --> 00:03:17,760 {\an8}in a long line of, 81 00:03:17,800 --> 00:03:19,760 {\an8}"Ahh, what does this mean?" 82 00:03:21,280 --> 00:03:23,280 God. 83 00:03:23,320 --> 00:03:24,720 I'm confident in my intelligence, 84 00:03:24,760 --> 00:03:26,360 I'm confident as a person, 85 00:03:26,400 --> 00:03:29,000 but I'm not confident about believing that people 86 00:03:29,040 --> 00:03:30,440 want me in that way. 87 00:03:30,480 --> 00:03:32,320 Especially after what happened with Charlotte. 88 00:03:32,360 --> 00:03:34,720 You know, I just feel like I'm not good enough. 89 00:03:34,760 --> 00:03:37,000 So I think this is going to be tough for me. 90 00:03:38,480 --> 00:03:39,800 Confidence? 91 00:03:39,840 --> 00:03:42,800 I think I'm confident when I'm someone else most of the time. 92 00:03:42,840 --> 00:03:44,360 OK, yeah. That's why I do drama and all that. 93 00:03:44,400 --> 00:03:46,560 There are times where I didn't won't chat to anyone, 94 00:03:46,600 --> 00:03:47,880 cos I just hate myself so much. 95 00:03:47,920 --> 00:03:49,240 Like I wouldn't even get on the bus 96 00:03:49,280 --> 00:03:51,280 cos I didn't want to talk to the bus driver, 97 00:03:51,320 --> 00:03:52,640 so I'd just walk everywhere. 98 00:03:52,680 --> 00:03:55,080 So, I need confidence, 99 00:03:55,120 --> 00:03:57,000 and hopefully this place will give it to me. 100 00:04:01,000 --> 00:04:02,800 Oh, they're all down there already, look at them. 101 00:04:02,840 --> 00:04:04,360 Bunch of hippies. 102 00:04:04,400 --> 00:04:06,720 Good morning. Good morning. 103 00:04:06,760 --> 00:04:10,400 Celeste and Danielle's first group workshop will test how ready 104 00:04:10,440 --> 00:04:12,960 the group are to banish embarrassment. 105 00:04:15,800 --> 00:04:20,760 We are moving into the next phase - confidence. 106 00:04:20,800 --> 00:04:23,800 If you're walking in the world and you're feeling kind of shut down, 107 00:04:23,840 --> 00:04:25,280 you're not going to be attractive. 108 00:04:25,320 --> 00:04:28,680 But really accepting yourself for who you are, 109 00:04:28,720 --> 00:04:30,720 you're going to BE more attractive. 110 00:04:33,960 --> 00:04:37,800 They've all prepared a dating or rejection story from their past, 111 00:04:37,840 --> 00:04:39,920 which has destroyed their confidence. 112 00:04:41,760 --> 00:04:46,520 So, you're going to take turns to share your rejection story. 113 00:04:46,560 --> 00:04:48,480 Who wants to come first? 114 00:04:54,120 --> 00:04:55,200 I'll go. 115 00:04:55,240 --> 00:04:57,480 Great. APPLAUSE 116 00:04:57,520 --> 00:05:00,240 First up, drama graduate, Tom. 117 00:05:01,960 --> 00:05:04,720 Being a virgin has definitely affected my confidence. 118 00:05:06,480 --> 00:05:08,560 In school, I felt like, socially, 119 00:05:08,600 --> 00:05:12,680 I wasn't developing as well as all my other classmates. 120 00:05:12,720 --> 00:05:16,680 They were all going out, drinking in the park, 121 00:05:16,720 --> 00:05:18,560 having fun and all those sorts of things. 122 00:05:18,600 --> 00:05:20,000 I was bit of a goody two shoes, 123 00:05:20,040 --> 00:05:24,320 and I felt like I was trailing behind everyone else in the end. 124 00:05:24,360 --> 00:05:26,560 I always have a voice on my shoulder 125 00:05:26,600 --> 00:05:29,320 always telling me that I'm not good enough. 126 00:05:30,960 --> 00:05:33,160 So, my story takes place third year of uni. 127 00:05:33,200 --> 00:05:37,200 I'd just received a message from a former friend, 128 00:05:37,240 --> 00:05:39,760 and we started chatting more and more. 129 00:05:39,800 --> 00:05:42,120 And it felt like it was getting a little bit flirty, 130 00:05:42,160 --> 00:05:45,040 so I invited her down to my place for my housemate's birthday. 131 00:05:45,080 --> 00:05:47,640 Got to the club, erm... 132 00:05:47,680 --> 00:05:49,400 I thought I was going to make my move there. 133 00:05:49,440 --> 00:05:51,000 I introduced her to my housemate. 134 00:05:51,040 --> 00:05:52,440 So, I went to the bar, 135 00:05:52,480 --> 00:05:54,800 and when I turned around bringing drinks, 136 00:05:54,840 --> 00:05:56,640 they're making out with each other. 137 00:05:58,920 --> 00:06:01,920 Revealing their most vulnerable moments to the group 138 00:06:01,960 --> 00:06:04,520 is only half of the process. 139 00:06:04,560 --> 00:06:08,040 So, each person is going to say their biggest rejection, 140 00:06:08,080 --> 00:06:10,960 and then immediately getting the feedback 141 00:06:11,000 --> 00:06:13,920 that you are lovable, that you are attractive. 142 00:06:13,960 --> 00:06:16,320 There's something that like shifts in your brain 143 00:06:16,360 --> 00:06:19,520 when you do all of that at the same time. 144 00:06:19,560 --> 00:06:21,960 Standing up for Tom is Taylor. 145 00:06:23,400 --> 00:06:25,200 I think, in that story, she was in the wrong 146 00:06:25,240 --> 00:06:27,200 for playing with your emotions like that. 147 00:06:27,240 --> 00:06:29,400 You're a really lovely person, you need to remember that, 148 00:06:29,440 --> 00:06:31,400 and she - she sucks. 149 00:06:31,440 --> 00:06:33,000 Ha-ha. She sucks. Thank you. 150 00:06:34,080 --> 00:06:36,440 Thank you.Thank you. APPLAUSE 151 00:06:39,360 --> 00:06:41,000 As well as rejection... 152 00:06:42,160 --> 00:06:44,280 I stayed over her house, and... 153 00:06:44,320 --> 00:06:46,680 And there was almost this unspoken sort of expectation 154 00:06:46,720 --> 00:06:47,880 that, oh, well, there would be sex. 155 00:06:47,920 --> 00:06:49,680 ..not being ready for sex... 156 00:06:49,720 --> 00:06:52,000 I was so nervous about doing something wrong 157 00:06:52,040 --> 00:06:53,280 that I just shut down. 158 00:06:54,600 --> 00:06:56,120 I just wasn't ready. 159 00:06:56,160 --> 00:06:58,080 ..and running away... 160 00:06:58,120 --> 00:06:59,400 He says to me, 161 00:06:59,440 --> 00:07:01,240 "So are we going to go all the way?" 162 00:07:01,280 --> 00:07:05,000 And, erm... I just, yeah, I think I just got the fear. 163 00:07:05,040 --> 00:07:06,560 ..are recurring themes. 164 00:07:06,600 --> 00:07:07,960 We were in bed, 165 00:07:08,000 --> 00:07:11,240 he started saying he didn't believe that I was a virgin. 166 00:07:11,280 --> 00:07:14,040 And he was quite persistent, like I was lying. 167 00:07:14,080 --> 00:07:15,640 I haven't seen anyone since that 168 00:07:15,680 --> 00:07:18,200 just because now I feel like I don't want to put myself 169 00:07:18,240 --> 00:07:20,120 in that position. 170 00:07:20,160 --> 00:07:22,080 But... 171 00:07:22,120 --> 00:07:23,920 Ben, you should be proud of yourself 172 00:07:23,960 --> 00:07:26,600 that you didn't feel like you had to go all the way. 173 00:07:26,640 --> 00:07:29,760 And the right person will come to you when it's right for you. 174 00:07:29,800 --> 00:07:30,960 Thanks. 175 00:07:31,000 --> 00:07:33,680 ..Celeste and Danielle believe that together... 176 00:07:33,720 --> 00:07:35,320 You're just so smiley 177 00:07:35,360 --> 00:07:37,240 and you make everybody else smile, 178 00:07:37,280 --> 00:07:39,320 and also, he's a dick, as well, yeah. 179 00:07:39,360 --> 00:07:40,800 LAUGHTER 180 00:07:40,840 --> 00:07:42,760 ..they can change. 181 00:07:42,800 --> 00:07:44,480 APPLAUSE 182 00:07:44,520 --> 00:07:47,840 Being able to get the antidote, like get the medicine, 183 00:07:47,880 --> 00:07:50,920 is so crucial and it builds so much confidence. 184 00:07:52,360 --> 00:07:54,480 Each story also gives the experts clues 185 00:07:54,520 --> 00:07:59,360 on individual needs to resolve their issue with intimacy. 186 00:07:59,400 --> 00:08:01,080 APPLAUSE 187 00:08:01,120 --> 00:08:02,880 Last is Taylor, 188 00:08:02,920 --> 00:08:05,920 who since coming out as bi-sexual at university, 189 00:08:05,960 --> 00:08:09,480 has never had a positive encounter with women or men. 190 00:08:09,520 --> 00:08:12,000 I was dancing with some friends and one of my friends was like, 191 00:08:12,040 --> 00:08:13,600 "That boy's making eyes at you," 192 00:08:13,640 --> 00:08:16,200 and like pointed out a quite good-looking lad on the dance floor, 193 00:08:16,240 --> 00:08:18,040 and I was like, "OK." 194 00:08:18,080 --> 00:08:19,160 And then one of them went, 195 00:08:19,200 --> 00:08:21,200 "He's coming over," and I hid behind her and said, 196 00:08:21,240 --> 00:08:24,280 "Dance me to the stairs so I can get out." 197 00:08:24,320 --> 00:08:26,720 And I just remembered that I was almost at the stairs 198 00:08:26,760 --> 00:08:30,320 and I'm crouched over and the crowd's parted, 199 00:08:30,360 --> 00:08:32,160 and the lights flashed for a second 200 00:08:32,200 --> 00:08:35,040 and I looked straight into this guy's eyes, like... 201 00:08:35,080 --> 00:08:36,640 And my heart just dropped. 202 00:08:36,680 --> 00:08:38,160 And I saw his face, like... 203 00:08:38,200 --> 00:08:40,480 So, it was one of those moments 204 00:08:40,520 --> 00:08:43,320 where, like, I was always expecting to be rejected. 205 00:08:45,160 --> 00:08:47,760 You're really nice, you're fantastic, pretty, 206 00:08:47,800 --> 00:08:50,640 and it's really nice seeing how you've come out of your shell. 207 00:08:50,680 --> 00:08:52,720 Well, you was always out of your shell - out more. 208 00:08:52,760 --> 00:08:54,480 SHE CHUCKLES But, yeah, you're amazing. 209 00:08:55,800 --> 00:08:58,960 Whoo. APPLAUSE 210 00:08:59,000 --> 00:09:01,840 DANIELLE: I just really want to applaud your bravery 211 00:09:01,880 --> 00:09:04,680 and your vulnerability to every one of you here. 212 00:09:13,400 --> 00:09:14,760 I felt really awkward. Yeah. 213 00:09:14,800 --> 00:09:15,840 I didn't mind sharing my story, 214 00:09:15,880 --> 00:09:17,640 I didn't like being told I was nice. 215 00:09:17,680 --> 00:09:18,960 Yeah, I know. 216 00:09:19,000 --> 00:09:22,600 I suffer from quite a lot of, like, self-doubt and paranoia. 217 00:09:22,640 --> 00:09:25,520 But I think self-confidence is different for everyone and for me, 218 00:09:25,560 --> 00:09:27,760 I usually just try and fake it till I make it. 219 00:09:34,360 --> 00:09:35,920 You OK? 220 00:09:35,960 --> 00:09:39,840 I just feel a bit, like, other. 221 00:09:39,880 --> 00:09:41,480 SHE EXHALES 222 00:09:41,520 --> 00:09:44,120 I still feel like they're trying to get to grips with me. 223 00:09:46,000 --> 00:09:47,200 I thought with Taylor, 224 00:09:47,240 --> 00:09:49,320 it was such like a running away story. 225 00:09:49,360 --> 00:09:51,520 You kind of picture her hiding behind someone else, 226 00:09:51,560 --> 00:09:52,760 like backing away and it's like, 227 00:09:52,800 --> 00:09:54,760 what is happening here, so...? What is happening? 228 00:09:54,800 --> 00:09:56,400 Yeah, it seemed like she was 229 00:09:56,440 --> 00:09:57,600 {\an8}so afraid of connection 230 00:09:57,640 --> 00:09:59,200 {\an8}that she just couldn't even bear the thought of it. 231 00:09:59,240 --> 00:10:00,520 Yeah. 232 00:10:02,040 --> 00:10:04,960 I do feel like there's a barrier between me and sex. 233 00:10:05,000 --> 00:10:07,600 Like, I've been on nights out where you're like, 234 00:10:07,640 --> 00:10:09,800 "'m going to do it, I'm going to have that one-night stand." 235 00:10:09,840 --> 00:10:12,200 And you meet someone and they want to take you back to their place, 236 00:10:12,240 --> 00:10:14,880 and then you hit this wall and you just think, 237 00:10:14,920 --> 00:10:15,960 " can't." 238 00:10:17,120 --> 00:10:18,600 When you see people in love, 239 00:10:18,640 --> 00:10:21,280 it is a lot that you're missing out on. 240 00:10:21,320 --> 00:10:23,920 And I can't have what everyone else gets to have. 241 00:10:26,920 --> 00:10:29,320 After a string of failed encounters with men, 242 00:10:29,360 --> 00:10:33,280 and an unsuccessful session with male surrogate Andre, 243 00:10:33,320 --> 00:10:35,000 could a different approach help? 244 00:10:37,080 --> 00:10:40,080 So, I just want to say, I'm kind of taking over from Andre. 245 00:10:40,120 --> 00:10:41,600 OK. How does it feel? 246 00:10:41,640 --> 00:10:43,320 A lot calmer, weirdly. OK. 247 00:10:43,360 --> 00:10:44,560 Because when Andre... 248 00:10:44,600 --> 00:10:46,840 Really lovely, want to be his best friend, 249 00:10:46,880 --> 00:10:50,200 but like, just didn't want to like have any kind of sexual contact. 250 00:10:52,640 --> 00:10:54,600 Do you want to move into some body work? 251 00:10:54,640 --> 00:10:55,760 Yeah. Yeah? 252 00:10:58,040 --> 00:11:01,280 So I just want you to bring awareness into your feet... 253 00:11:03,200 --> 00:11:05,920 ..noticing any tension that you feel. 254 00:11:08,640 --> 00:11:10,920 Kat wants Taylor to concentrate 255 00:11:10,960 --> 00:11:14,120 on how it feels to be touched by a woman. 256 00:11:14,160 --> 00:11:18,360 Then we'll move to the ankles and the lower legs. 257 00:11:22,800 --> 00:11:23,960 Sorry. 258 00:11:24,000 --> 00:11:26,360 No, no, don't apologise, it's OK. 259 00:11:28,400 --> 00:11:31,120 Is it, like, does it feel like a release? Does it feel... 260 00:11:31,160 --> 00:11:33,080 Yeah, OK. 261 00:11:33,120 --> 00:11:34,520 TAYLOR SNIFFLES 262 00:11:34,560 --> 00:11:37,080 It's just such a relief to not feel scared at all. 263 00:11:37,120 --> 00:11:39,520 Mmm, that's amazing. 264 00:11:41,720 --> 00:11:43,040 TAYLOR SOBS 265 00:11:46,200 --> 00:11:47,440 Mmm. 266 00:11:49,680 --> 00:11:51,120 I feel so silly. 267 00:11:51,160 --> 00:11:52,640 No, why? 268 00:11:52,680 --> 00:11:57,640 Just, for like, wasting my own time and everyone else's for so long. 269 00:11:57,680 --> 00:11:59,440 No. 270 00:11:59,480 --> 00:12:00,800 By feeling uncertain? 271 00:12:02,600 --> 00:12:03,760 Yeah. 272 00:12:06,640 --> 00:12:08,960 TAYLOR SOBS 273 00:12:15,200 --> 00:12:16,400 SOFTLY: It's OK. 274 00:12:18,480 --> 00:12:19,840 Yeah, it's OK. 275 00:12:21,560 --> 00:12:23,160 I think that's enough for today. 276 00:12:25,840 --> 00:12:27,840 After years of confusion, 277 00:12:27,880 --> 00:12:30,680 it's the breakthrough Taylor's been looking for. 278 00:12:30,720 --> 00:12:32,520 I always thought I was bi, 279 00:12:32,560 --> 00:12:35,240 but being here and having to like, kind of, confront it... 280 00:12:35,280 --> 00:12:36,400 Yeah. ..I think I'm... 281 00:12:36,440 --> 00:12:39,600 I might not like men, like, at all. 282 00:12:39,640 --> 00:12:43,640 OK, and how does it feel like to sit with it and own it? 283 00:12:43,680 --> 00:12:46,240 It feels good to own it, but it's also really scary. 284 00:12:46,280 --> 00:12:48,080 It is really scary. Yeah. Yeah. 285 00:12:53,240 --> 00:12:54,960 Oh, God, finally. 286 00:12:55,000 --> 00:12:56,160 KAT CHUCKLES 287 00:12:56,200 --> 00:12:58,320 Yay! I'm so excited. Yay. 288 00:12:58,360 --> 00:13:00,040 This feels so good. Yay! 289 00:13:00,080 --> 00:13:02,480 But it feels so good, a good cry. 290 00:13:02,520 --> 00:13:04,000 Yay, I'm glad. 291 00:13:04,040 --> 00:13:05,400 Oh, thank you so much, 292 00:13:05,440 --> 00:13:07,000 I really appreciate it. 293 00:13:09,480 --> 00:13:13,040 I'm just gay and I think I've been deluding myself into, 294 00:13:13,080 --> 00:13:16,080 like, "No, I like men as well, because that's normal and good." 295 00:13:16,120 --> 00:13:17,840 But, like, I didn't feel scared. 296 00:13:19,720 --> 00:13:21,240 That felt really good. 297 00:13:25,000 --> 00:13:26,240 Hello. 298 00:13:26,280 --> 00:13:28,480 So, how was your... What was it, a one-on-one session you did? 299 00:13:28,520 --> 00:13:30,720 I went to my one-to-one session. Who was it with? 300 00:13:30,760 --> 00:13:32,520 Good? It was with Kat, 301 00:13:32,560 --> 00:13:34,400 and it was the best one I've had. 302 00:13:34,440 --> 00:13:37,200 Oh, really? And I'm definitely gay. 303 00:13:37,240 --> 00:13:39,960 APPLAUSE I know, thank you. 304 00:13:40,000 --> 00:13:41,320 What a breakthrough. 305 00:13:41,360 --> 00:13:44,240 SOBS: I know, I've wasted all fuckin' week! 306 00:13:44,280 --> 00:13:46,760 Aw, we love... Happy tears. We love you, Taylor. 307 00:13:46,800 --> 00:13:48,160 Thank you. 308 00:13:48,200 --> 00:13:50,640 I feel like now I can get more out of the retreat 309 00:13:50,680 --> 00:13:53,080 because I know kind of what I want 310 00:13:53,120 --> 00:13:56,160 and I'm not pretending that I want other things just to fit in. 311 00:14:08,400 --> 00:14:09,680 Would you sell your virginity? 312 00:14:09,720 --> 00:14:11,000 I would. 313 00:14:11,040 --> 00:14:12,640 I've considered it before. 314 00:14:12,680 --> 00:14:14,960 Well, how much would you sell your virginity for? 315 00:14:15,000 --> 00:14:17,400 I'd say couple of 100K, plus. 316 00:14:17,440 --> 00:14:19,840 I'd do it for a tenner and a packet of doughnuts. 317 00:14:19,880 --> 00:14:21,960 Different for boys. What about your anal virginity? 318 00:14:22,000 --> 00:14:24,880 Yeah. Noooo. No. 319 00:14:24,920 --> 00:14:27,360 That's his boundary. That's... Yeah, That's my boundary. 320 00:14:27,400 --> 00:14:29,160 Yeah. At least £1,000,000. 321 00:14:29,200 --> 00:14:30,760 Ha! 322 00:14:30,800 --> 00:14:35,160 It's the first afternoon of the confidence phase at the retreat. 323 00:14:35,200 --> 00:14:37,360 What language do lesbians speak? 324 00:14:37,400 --> 00:14:38,440 What? 325 00:14:38,480 --> 00:14:39,600 Gay-lick. 326 00:14:39,640 --> 00:14:41,600 LAUGHTER 327 00:14:41,640 --> 00:14:43,280 What do you call a lesbian dinosaur? 328 00:14:43,320 --> 00:14:44,560 Don't know. 329 00:14:44,600 --> 00:14:45,680 Lick-a-lot-of-pus. 330 00:14:45,720 --> 00:14:46,800 Ahh! CHUCKLING 331 00:14:46,840 --> 00:14:47,840 Like that one. 332 00:14:49,280 --> 00:14:51,680 After helping Taylor find her true self, 333 00:14:51,720 --> 00:14:54,680 Celeste and Danielle have left something for the boys 334 00:14:54,720 --> 00:14:56,680 to see if any of them have the confidence 335 00:14:56,720 --> 00:14:58,800 to explore their identities, too. 336 00:14:58,840 --> 00:14:59,960 Do you want a pamper, Tom? 337 00:15:00,000 --> 00:15:01,640 I would love a pamper, to be fair. 338 00:15:01,680 --> 00:15:02,760 What do you want, a face mask? 339 00:15:02,800 --> 00:15:05,920 Oh, I'd be up for any of it, mascara, lipstick. 340 00:15:05,960 --> 00:15:07,280 Perf. 341 00:15:11,720 --> 00:15:15,400 This is an exercise that helps people lower their inhibitions. 342 00:15:15,440 --> 00:15:17,080 Welcome to Emma's salon. 343 00:15:17,120 --> 00:15:20,680 Society can give young men such a narrow view of masculinity. 344 00:15:20,720 --> 00:15:23,920 So we really wanted to help them start to get past 345 00:15:23,960 --> 00:15:25,400 some of those myths. 346 00:15:25,440 --> 00:15:27,640 How do you feel now? Relaxed? 347 00:15:27,680 --> 00:15:29,040 Like I'm being operated on. 348 00:15:30,200 --> 00:15:32,880 Although Ben isn't made up with the make-up... 349 00:15:32,920 --> 00:15:36,560 I wanted it to look like good, and natural, and not drag-queeny. 350 00:15:36,600 --> 00:15:38,600 That's all right, I can be drag queen. 351 00:15:38,640 --> 00:15:39,840 THEY CHUCKLE 352 00:15:39,880 --> 00:15:42,000 ..Tom is in the pink. 353 00:15:42,040 --> 00:15:44,280 He looks like a... Like a nice, young German boy. 354 00:15:44,320 --> 00:15:45,800 CHUCKLING 355 00:15:45,840 --> 00:15:48,560 I've never had a girlfriend in my life, no. 356 00:15:48,600 --> 00:15:51,440 Sometimes I come across quite camp. 357 00:15:51,480 --> 00:15:54,640 I'll go out to the club, and I'll start slut dropping, 358 00:15:54,680 --> 00:15:57,640 I will start singing along to Taylor Swift, 359 00:15:57,680 --> 00:16:00,120 Katy Perry, bit of Abba, 360 00:16:00,160 --> 00:16:03,040 but a lot of people didn't know how to differentiate 361 00:16:03,080 --> 00:16:04,680 between camp and being gay, 362 00:16:04,720 --> 00:16:06,560 so they kind of saw them as one and the same. 363 00:16:06,600 --> 00:16:07,800 You trust me, yeah? 364 00:16:07,840 --> 00:16:10,000 Why are you holding it like that? 365 00:16:10,040 --> 00:16:11,360 Oh, my God. 366 00:16:11,400 --> 00:16:12,480 CHUCKLING 367 00:16:12,520 --> 00:16:14,880 I want to lose my virginity, 368 00:16:14,920 --> 00:16:16,280 but people just aren't interested 369 00:16:16,320 --> 00:16:19,080 in someone who doesn't have confidence in themselves. 370 00:16:20,440 --> 00:16:21,560 That ain't bad! 371 00:16:21,600 --> 00:16:23,040 That's not bad, come on. 372 00:16:23,080 --> 00:16:24,800 It feels so wrong, yet so right. 373 00:16:24,840 --> 00:16:26,080 LAUGHTER 374 00:16:27,560 --> 00:16:30,480 Made up, the boys have engaged with their soft side. 375 00:16:30,520 --> 00:16:34,480 But now the experts want them to reinforce their strength, too, 376 00:16:34,520 --> 00:16:38,120 and try to get good with wood. MAN YELLS 377 00:16:38,160 --> 00:16:41,640 Has anyone felt an emotion and they were afraid to show it 378 00:16:41,680 --> 00:16:43,960 because of what someone else might think? 379 00:16:45,600 --> 00:16:46,680 Yeah. 380 00:16:48,000 --> 00:16:51,880 But today we're going to get to let those emotions out. 381 00:16:51,920 --> 00:16:54,320 So, we're letting go of the emotion as the axe splits 382 00:16:54,360 --> 00:16:56,160 the wood, you know? 383 00:16:56,200 --> 00:16:57,640 HE ROARS 384 00:16:57,680 --> 00:17:00,840 Just tune into some primal emotion in your body. 385 00:17:00,880 --> 00:17:03,320 All right, who feels like they'd like to go first? 386 00:17:04,520 --> 00:17:06,000 Go on, Dave. GROUP MURMUR 387 00:17:06,040 --> 00:17:08,320 Dave. All right, lads. 388 00:17:08,360 --> 00:17:10,000 Hi. Thank you. 389 00:17:13,200 --> 00:17:14,480 DAVE ROARS 390 00:17:14,520 --> 00:17:16,600 Yes, good job, Dave. 391 00:17:18,960 --> 00:17:20,200 HE ROARS 392 00:17:20,240 --> 00:17:21,640 Yeah, ho-ho! 393 00:17:21,680 --> 00:17:23,720 CHUCKLING, APPLAUSE 394 00:17:23,760 --> 00:17:25,280 CHEERING 395 00:17:27,080 --> 00:17:28,400 Yeah! CHEERING 396 00:17:29,520 --> 00:17:32,200 Not only are they letting out some raw emotion... 397 00:17:32,240 --> 00:17:33,520 TOM GRUNTS 398 00:17:33,560 --> 00:17:35,240 Yeah. Good job, bro. 399 00:17:36,640 --> 00:17:37,800 Ah! 400 00:17:37,840 --> 00:17:39,280 SOFTLY:Ah, shit. CHUCKLING 401 00:17:39,320 --> 00:17:40,960 That was bad. 402 00:17:41,000 --> 00:17:44,360 ..for 25-year-old Viraj, it's a lesson in resilience. 403 00:17:44,400 --> 00:17:46,200 Ha! Oh, my God. 404 00:17:46,240 --> 00:17:47,440 Come on, you've got this! 405 00:17:49,440 --> 00:17:51,360 VIRAJ GRUNTS ALL CHEER 406 00:17:51,400 --> 00:17:53,360 LAUGHTER, APPLAUSE 407 00:17:53,400 --> 00:17:54,640 Good job, Viraj. 408 00:17:59,640 --> 00:18:01,240 Heya! Hi. Hey. 409 00:18:01,280 --> 00:18:02,440 How was the chopping? 410 00:18:02,480 --> 00:18:03,720 Oh, I sucked, I was the worst. 411 00:18:03,760 --> 00:18:05,560 Man chop wood. Man chop wood. 412 00:18:05,600 --> 00:18:07,080 Man use axe. 413 00:18:07,120 --> 00:18:10,560 Getting manly has left many of the boys on a high. 414 00:18:10,600 --> 00:18:12,400 Man talk to girls. 415 00:18:12,440 --> 00:18:13,840 Man break wind. 416 00:18:13,880 --> 00:18:15,200 HE CHUCKLES 417 00:18:16,320 --> 00:18:18,040 Are you desperately trying to get your nail varnish off? 418 00:18:18,080 --> 00:18:19,160 Yes. 419 00:18:19,200 --> 00:18:20,360 Have you taken yours off? 420 00:18:20,400 --> 00:18:22,640 No, I might just stick it out. 421 00:18:22,680 --> 00:18:24,960 I think it's about trying to be in touch with your emotions 422 00:18:25,000 --> 00:18:27,840 rather than letting it all boil up inside you. 423 00:18:27,880 --> 00:18:30,200 Do you think it worked? 424 00:18:30,240 --> 00:18:31,960 I'm still virgin, so not yet. 425 00:18:36,040 --> 00:18:38,000 To try and change that... 426 00:18:38,040 --> 00:18:41,840 So, I'll just be touching all over your body, but not your genitals. 427 00:18:43,160 --> 00:18:45,240 ..the experts believe Dave's ready to start 428 00:18:45,280 --> 00:18:47,840 the island's most advanced treatment, 429 00:18:47,880 --> 00:18:49,320 surrogate partner therapy. 430 00:18:50,440 --> 00:18:51,680 How are you feeling? 431 00:18:52,800 --> 00:18:54,040 Good. Yeah? Yeah. 432 00:18:54,080 --> 00:18:55,480 SOFTLY: OK. 433 00:18:57,080 --> 00:18:58,840 It was really nice. 434 00:18:58,880 --> 00:19:01,040 It felt natural and enjoyable. 435 00:19:01,080 --> 00:19:02,520 Erm... 436 00:19:02,560 --> 00:19:05,160 It's given me a massive confidence boost. 437 00:19:05,200 --> 00:19:06,760 Meanwhile... 438 00:19:06,800 --> 00:19:10,560 I'd like to just go into an experience 439 00:19:10,600 --> 00:19:12,440 of connecting with your body. 440 00:19:12,480 --> 00:19:14,000 Yeah, let's do it. Yeah. Mm. 441 00:19:14,040 --> 00:19:15,680 OK, let's try that. Yeah. 442 00:19:15,720 --> 00:19:19,240 ..Jason's lessons on how to hug are moving up a step. 443 00:19:19,280 --> 00:19:22,360 You can touch me in a way that feels good to you. 444 00:19:22,400 --> 00:19:23,520 So amazing. 445 00:19:23,560 --> 00:19:25,280 HE CHUCKLES 446 00:19:28,760 --> 00:19:30,360 THEY LAUGH 447 00:19:33,280 --> 00:19:34,280 Yeah. 448 00:19:36,200 --> 00:19:37,560 Across the island, 449 00:19:37,600 --> 00:19:40,960 the make-up session has raised more questions than answers for Tom. 450 00:19:41,000 --> 00:19:42,480 Doing the woodchopping, 451 00:19:42,520 --> 00:19:44,320 doing the whole make-up thing, 452 00:19:44,360 --> 00:19:48,120 I really enjoyed that, but I don't know, it just felt like 453 00:19:48,160 --> 00:19:50,920 a lot of things about, like, gender end up coming into it. 454 00:19:50,960 --> 00:19:54,360 I just feel a bit weird, I think. 455 00:19:57,880 --> 00:20:00,760 The experts have noticed a change in Tom, too, 456 00:20:00,800 --> 00:20:03,040 so they're sending him for a session with Kat 457 00:20:03,080 --> 00:20:05,600 to see if she can find out what's really going on. 458 00:20:07,200 --> 00:20:10,760 Because so many people over the years have called me gay, 459 00:20:10,800 --> 00:20:14,120 I've kind of started to question my own sexuality sometimes. 460 00:20:14,160 --> 00:20:16,520 For a while, I saw myself as a closeted bisexual, 461 00:20:16,560 --> 00:20:20,680 erm, but one of the prerequisites of being bisexual is, 462 00:20:20,720 --> 00:20:21,960 like, you have to like men. 463 00:20:22,000 --> 00:20:23,320 I didn't like men that way. 464 00:20:24,800 --> 00:20:26,840 But I want to learn more about myself 465 00:20:26,880 --> 00:20:29,200 and my own battles with identity. 466 00:20:29,240 --> 00:20:32,280 There's just so many things which have made me question that. 467 00:20:34,800 --> 00:20:36,320 How are you doing? 468 00:20:36,360 --> 00:20:39,360 Ah, not so great today, I'd say. 469 00:20:39,400 --> 00:20:42,160 Yeah? Just struggling a little bit, I think. 470 00:20:42,200 --> 00:20:43,560 Yeah? Yeah. 471 00:20:43,600 --> 00:20:45,680 I think just working out my place, 472 00:20:45,720 --> 00:20:48,680 like, and how I fit into things, the dynamic, 473 00:20:48,720 --> 00:20:52,600 whether I'm part of the men, or the women, or the... 474 00:20:52,640 --> 00:20:55,360 Oh, I see. Yeah, yeah. ..where I belong in that sort of stuff, yeah. 475 00:20:55,400 --> 00:20:57,760 I think that I really enjoyed, like, putting the make-up on, 476 00:20:57,800 --> 00:20:59,280 and it feels like... 477 00:21:00,880 --> 00:21:02,280 It's OK, it's OK. 478 00:21:03,560 --> 00:21:04,680 SOFTLY: Sorry. 479 00:21:04,720 --> 00:21:06,960 No, don't apologise, it's OK. 480 00:21:07,000 --> 00:21:08,440 Is there a tissue? 481 00:21:08,480 --> 00:21:09,560 Yeah. 482 00:21:13,080 --> 00:21:14,120 Thanks. Yep. 483 00:21:18,800 --> 00:21:19,960 Oh. Oh. 484 00:21:23,160 --> 00:21:27,120 I don't feel like I'm quite the full masculine side of things. 485 00:21:27,160 --> 00:21:28,320 I do think... 486 00:21:30,240 --> 00:21:31,960 ..I am slightly more masculine leaning, 487 00:21:32,000 --> 00:21:34,560 but I don't think I'm fully man, but... 488 00:21:36,040 --> 00:21:38,040 Yeah. ..I'm not too sure. 489 00:21:38,080 --> 00:21:43,560 Yeah. And does it feel scary to step into the feminine? 490 00:21:43,600 --> 00:21:46,320 {\an8}It's scary because I don't know what to label myself as. 491 00:21:46,360 --> 00:21:49,120 Nonbinary is quite, I don't know, 492 00:21:49,160 --> 00:21:50,560 it feels quite scary 493 00:21:50,600 --> 00:21:53,920 and I'm not sure it is a total fit for me either. Mm-hm. 494 00:21:53,960 --> 00:21:56,120 I want you to try as much as you can 495 00:21:56,160 --> 00:22:01,400 to like pause from naming things, 496 00:22:01,440 --> 00:22:04,040 ground it in the body a little bit, 497 00:22:04,080 --> 00:22:07,320 and just pay attention to how you feel. Yeah. OK. 498 00:22:10,360 --> 00:22:12,200 See you soon. Yeah, see you soon. 499 00:22:13,760 --> 00:22:16,040 I'm not sure I'm totally happy within at the moment, 500 00:22:16,080 --> 00:22:17,720 but that's because it bought up a lot of stuff 501 00:22:17,760 --> 00:22:19,880 that I'm going to work through, 502 00:22:19,920 --> 00:22:22,120 but definitely in a happier mindset, let's say. 503 00:22:33,640 --> 00:22:34,920 Hey, Holly, guess what? 504 00:22:34,960 --> 00:22:36,880 Ha. What? I'm a lesbian. 505 00:22:36,920 --> 00:22:38,080 Whoo. 506 00:22:39,160 --> 00:22:41,000 Sup? Morning. 507 00:22:41,040 --> 00:22:42,600 Ready to go today, guys? 508 00:22:42,640 --> 00:22:44,080 Way! 509 00:22:46,160 --> 00:22:48,840 It's day two of the confidence phase of the course. 510 00:22:50,480 --> 00:22:51,840 Morning, Dave, you all right? 511 00:22:51,880 --> 00:22:53,160 Yeah. Morning. 512 00:22:53,200 --> 00:22:55,160 This is all I want in life, a good cup of tea. 513 00:22:56,680 --> 00:22:58,560 I'm struggling a little bit with the confidence, 514 00:22:58,600 --> 00:23:00,440 but I think it's just taking 515 00:23:00,480 --> 00:23:02,200 those little steps for me 516 00:23:02,240 --> 00:23:03,400 and I'm really hoping that 517 00:23:03,440 --> 00:23:07,280 I can build up myself and build up my confidence. 518 00:23:07,320 --> 00:23:10,880 That's exactly what Celeste and Danielle plan to do next, 519 00:23:10,920 --> 00:23:14,760 with a lesson on the foundation of all romance - dating. 520 00:23:14,800 --> 00:23:18,120 Ooh, chairs! Oh, we're going on a date! 521 00:23:18,160 --> 00:23:19,600 Ooh! UNEASY LAUGHTER 522 00:23:19,640 --> 00:23:21,040 Oh, my God. Oh, my God! 523 00:23:21,080 --> 00:23:22,880 Oh, I've been on so many dates, this will be easy for me. 524 00:23:22,920 --> 00:23:24,080 Yeah, it should be. 525 00:23:33,120 --> 00:23:36,040 So we're going to talk about the skills of a great date. 526 00:23:36,080 --> 00:23:38,840 All those skills that we need to have in order 527 00:23:38,880 --> 00:23:43,000 to have great relationships are just skills. 528 00:23:43,040 --> 00:23:46,240 You want to learn them and practise them. 529 00:23:47,560 --> 00:23:51,080 Celeste and Danielle have a rule of three dating skills. 530 00:23:51,120 --> 00:23:54,000 The first one is giving an in-the-moment compliment. 531 00:23:54,040 --> 00:23:58,080 Like "I really love the way your eyes twinkle when you smile." 532 00:23:58,120 --> 00:23:59,520 You know, something that really feels 533 00:23:59,560 --> 00:24:01,440 like you are connecting with a person. 534 00:24:01,480 --> 00:24:06,240 The second one is to be able to both give and recognise the look. 535 00:24:06,280 --> 00:24:08,280 And the look means "I'm ready now. 536 00:24:08,320 --> 00:24:09,720 "I'm ready to be kissed." 537 00:24:09,760 --> 00:24:13,960 And then finally, the third skill is the lean-in for the kiss. 538 00:24:15,720 --> 00:24:17,040 So we're going to do a little demo 539 00:24:17,080 --> 00:24:19,480 and then you're going to have opportunities to practise. 540 00:24:19,520 --> 00:24:23,120 And in this case, practise means role play. 541 00:24:23,160 --> 00:24:24,440 I'm so glad we finally got here. 542 00:24:24,480 --> 00:24:25,800 It's been a lot of planning. BOTH CHUCKLE 543 00:24:25,840 --> 00:24:27,080 I know, right? Yeah. 544 00:24:28,400 --> 00:24:31,200 So, do you like to travel? 545 00:24:31,240 --> 00:24:33,040 Oh, my God, I love travelling. 546 00:24:33,080 --> 00:24:34,720 Travelling is really my passion. 547 00:24:34,760 --> 00:24:36,000 Where's your favourite place? 548 00:24:36,040 --> 00:24:39,200 Mmm! Wow, I can't think about anything. 549 00:24:39,240 --> 00:24:41,400 BOTH LAUGH 550 00:24:41,440 --> 00:24:43,840 I can just listen to that laugh all day long. 551 00:24:43,880 --> 00:24:45,640 DANIELLE LAUGHS 552 00:24:45,680 --> 00:24:47,840 You're embarrassing me a little bit. 553 00:24:47,880 --> 00:24:49,920 BOTH LAUGH But I like it, too. 554 00:24:49,960 --> 00:24:51,560 So that's an in-the-moment. 555 00:24:51,600 --> 00:24:54,040 Uh-huh. Did you see - flirting was going on all the time? 556 00:24:54,080 --> 00:24:55,200 Yeah? 557 00:24:57,440 --> 00:24:58,840 You are giving me the look. 558 00:24:58,880 --> 00:25:00,280 BOTH LAUGH 559 00:25:00,320 --> 00:25:03,120 I was also getting it from you, I think. 560 00:25:04,200 --> 00:25:05,400 Mm. 561 00:25:09,400 --> 00:25:11,000 Mmm. 562 00:25:12,920 --> 00:25:14,320 Such a good kisser. 563 00:25:14,360 --> 00:25:15,760 BOTH CHUCKLE 564 00:25:17,160 --> 00:25:20,200 OK. You are each other's practise buddies, 565 00:25:20,240 --> 00:25:21,640 and that's really going to help you. 566 00:25:21,680 --> 00:25:23,480 The more you practise, the more it's just going to be like, 567 00:25:23,520 --> 00:25:25,960 "Oh, this is normal, this is just what I do." 568 00:25:26,000 --> 00:25:28,240 That's confidence, right? 569 00:25:28,280 --> 00:25:29,680 Who wants to... 570 00:25:29,720 --> 00:25:32,280 Yay! Come on up, Emma. Yay, Emma! 571 00:25:32,320 --> 00:25:34,840 I wouldn't really say I've actually ever been 572 00:25:34,880 --> 00:25:35,960 on a date in my life. 573 00:25:36,000 --> 00:25:37,080 Who else? 574 00:25:38,440 --> 00:25:40,720 I'll do it. CHEERING 575 00:25:40,760 --> 00:25:43,720 It's hard to, kind of, open myself up to that world 576 00:25:43,760 --> 00:25:46,200 where I've had such a block on it for so long. 577 00:25:47,960 --> 00:25:49,600 Hello. Hello. 578 00:25:49,640 --> 00:25:50,800 HE CHUCKLES How are you, OK? 579 00:25:50,840 --> 00:25:52,880 Very good. Did you enjoy the show? 580 00:25:52,920 --> 00:25:54,320 Yeah, I did, yeah. 581 00:25:54,360 --> 00:25:56,000 What did you like the best? 582 00:25:56,040 --> 00:25:57,280 Hmm. 583 00:25:57,320 --> 00:25:58,560 Now you've put me on the spot. 584 00:25:58,600 --> 00:26:00,080 HE CHUCKLES 585 00:26:00,120 --> 00:26:04,080 I like how you get lost in your thoughts there. Yeah. 586 00:26:04,120 --> 00:26:06,320 Always, always getting lost. Somewhere else? 587 00:26:06,360 --> 00:26:08,920 Yeah! Yeah, in my own world. 588 00:26:08,960 --> 00:26:10,440 Mm. Mm. 589 00:26:10,480 --> 00:26:13,160 I like that you noticed that. You're very observant. 590 00:26:27,880 --> 00:26:29,520 That was phenomenal. 591 00:26:29,560 --> 00:26:32,480 Any tips for Zac on how he could even give it... 592 00:26:32,520 --> 00:26:34,240 I... I need the tips. 593 00:26:34,280 --> 00:26:38,280 Maybe if you just took care of the hand that little bit more. 594 00:26:38,320 --> 00:26:39,920 HE CHUCKLES And then just pay attention 595 00:26:39,960 --> 00:26:41,360 to how it feels on your skin. 596 00:26:41,400 --> 00:26:42,600 Yeah. OK. 597 00:26:42,640 --> 00:26:44,680 Just slow down and like... Slow down. 598 00:26:44,720 --> 00:26:48,000 Yeah. OK. Make sure that it's the right level. Yep. Mmm. 599 00:26:48,040 --> 00:26:49,600 CHEERING, APPLAUSE Great job, Zac. 600 00:26:49,640 --> 00:26:51,720 That was beautiful. Good job. Good job. 601 00:26:53,600 --> 00:26:56,240 After Zac and Emma's masterclass... 602 00:26:56,280 --> 00:26:58,760 A fully nude cafe, bold choice for our first date. 603 00:26:58,800 --> 00:27:01,040 LAUGHTER 604 00:27:01,080 --> 00:27:03,960 ..the others step up to the dating plate. 605 00:27:04,000 --> 00:27:05,480 I'm a bus driver. 606 00:27:05,520 --> 00:27:06,720 Do you enjoy it? 607 00:27:06,760 --> 00:27:08,560 No. BOTH CHUCKLE 608 00:27:09,800 --> 00:27:11,640 Do you want to just try giving her the look? 609 00:27:11,680 --> 00:27:13,400 See if... That was it. That was the eyebrows! 610 00:27:13,440 --> 00:27:14,880 There it was. There it was! 611 00:27:16,760 --> 00:27:18,600 Just want to see if you're catching it. 612 00:27:18,640 --> 00:27:20,160 No, I didn't catch it, to be fair. You didn't catch it? 613 00:27:20,200 --> 00:27:23,000 OK, I want you to start paying attention to those things. 614 00:27:33,120 --> 00:27:34,400 It was nice talking to you. 615 00:27:34,440 --> 00:27:36,760 SHE GIGGLES 616 00:27:38,040 --> 00:27:39,280 BOTH: Wow. 617 00:27:39,320 --> 00:27:41,000 LAUGHTER 618 00:27:41,040 --> 00:27:42,800 APPLAUSE 619 00:27:42,840 --> 00:27:45,960 Last to take the plunge is serial dater Ben, 620 00:27:46,000 --> 00:27:48,240 who despite having over 40 dates, 621 00:27:48,280 --> 00:27:50,440 has always been unlucky in love. 622 00:27:50,480 --> 00:27:51,880 BEN SIGHS 623 00:27:53,360 --> 00:27:55,240 What's stopped me from taking it to the next level 624 00:27:55,280 --> 00:27:57,240 with a lot of these dates I've been on, I think, 625 00:27:57,280 --> 00:27:59,440 is just lack of experience and lack of success 626 00:27:59,480 --> 00:28:01,200 at reading sort of social signals. 627 00:28:01,240 --> 00:28:02,680 I tend to play it safe, 628 00:28:02,720 --> 00:28:05,280 and it think for guys like me who just struggle with that, 629 00:28:05,320 --> 00:28:08,920 making the move and reading the signs, it's very hard. 630 00:28:10,640 --> 00:28:12,720 Who wants to try it with Ben? 631 00:28:23,960 --> 00:28:25,800 Do I get to do it? 632 00:28:25,840 --> 00:28:28,120 Good cos this will be our second date. 633 00:28:28,160 --> 00:28:29,480 Mm-hm. Yeah. 634 00:28:29,520 --> 00:28:30,960 SHE CHUCKLES 635 00:28:31,000 --> 00:28:33,160 Well, it's good see you again, Celeste. 636 00:28:33,200 --> 00:28:35,160 It's good to see you, too. 637 00:28:35,200 --> 00:28:36,600 What job do you do? 638 00:28:36,640 --> 00:28:38,680 I coach people to have more intimacy 639 00:28:38,720 --> 00:28:40,760 and connection with each other. Ooh. OK. 640 00:28:49,080 --> 00:28:50,520 I like your glasses. 641 00:28:50,560 --> 00:28:52,040 Thank you. They suit you. 642 00:28:52,080 --> 00:28:53,160 Mmm. 643 00:29:00,360 --> 00:29:03,200 When you, like, get all into the experience, 644 00:29:03,240 --> 00:29:04,800 you're really beautiful. 645 00:29:04,840 --> 00:29:06,280 Thank you. So are you. 646 00:29:06,320 --> 00:29:08,040 Thank you. 647 00:29:08,080 --> 00:29:10,160 Yes!Thank you. APPLAUSE 648 00:29:14,480 --> 00:29:16,560 Despite Celeste's flirting... 649 00:29:16,600 --> 00:29:17,880 You all right, mate? 650 00:29:17,920 --> 00:29:19,040 Yeah. 651 00:29:19,080 --> 00:29:22,520 ..being rejected by the group has hurt Ben. 652 00:29:22,560 --> 00:29:26,000 So tonight, you're going to have another opportunity 653 00:29:26,040 --> 00:29:28,000 to just practise skills building 654 00:29:28,040 --> 00:29:31,320 as you'll all be going on practice dates with each other. 655 00:29:31,360 --> 00:29:33,800 You'll learn so much and give each other 656 00:29:33,840 --> 00:29:35,600 so much from that experience. 657 00:29:39,080 --> 00:29:41,480 Holly, how was my kissing skills out of ten? 658 00:29:41,520 --> 00:29:42,800 Oh, a solid 9.5. 659 00:29:42,840 --> 00:29:44,840 Yes! Yeah, it was really good! Get in there. 660 00:29:47,440 --> 00:29:48,960 What did everyone think of that session? 661 00:29:49,000 --> 00:29:50,440 No, it was fine. 662 00:29:50,480 --> 00:29:51,880 I enjoyed it. 663 00:29:53,960 --> 00:29:56,320 Tell me how you found the workshop? 664 00:29:56,360 --> 00:29:57,640 Crap. 665 00:29:59,520 --> 00:30:00,640 Awful. 666 00:30:00,680 --> 00:30:02,560 I didn't like it. 667 00:30:02,600 --> 00:30:04,480 I got up and no-one wanted to do it with me. 668 00:30:04,520 --> 00:30:05,920 I was really hurt. 669 00:30:05,960 --> 00:30:08,000 The ironic thing is the confidence section, 670 00:30:08,040 --> 00:30:09,280 which I knew would be hard, 671 00:30:09,320 --> 00:30:12,320 has probably wrecked my confidence. 672 00:30:12,360 --> 00:30:13,560 Hello. 673 00:30:14,680 --> 00:30:16,360 Hello. 674 00:30:16,400 --> 00:30:18,680 For Ben, it's yet another setback. 675 00:30:20,200 --> 00:30:21,480 You OK? 676 00:30:21,520 --> 00:30:24,240 The confidence round basically shattered my confidence. 677 00:30:24,280 --> 00:30:26,840 And he's not the only one struggling. 678 00:30:26,880 --> 00:30:29,320 I walked out the workshop feeling worse. 679 00:30:29,360 --> 00:30:30,520 Oh, really? 680 00:30:30,560 --> 00:30:31,920 What's bothered you today? 681 00:30:34,360 --> 00:30:35,760 SHE SIGHS I don't know. 682 00:30:37,760 --> 00:30:41,240 The experts feel something is holding Emma back, 683 00:30:41,280 --> 00:30:44,040 and now they want to find out what it is. 684 00:30:45,240 --> 00:30:46,640 How are you feeling? 685 00:30:46,680 --> 00:30:48,840 I'm feeling all right, 686 00:30:48,880 --> 00:30:50,960 but I just really feel for Ben. 687 00:30:51,000 --> 00:30:52,040 It's hard, isn't it? 688 00:30:52,080 --> 00:30:54,040 Like, where I care for other people, 689 00:30:54,080 --> 00:30:57,120 it's hard to think about myself. 690 00:30:57,160 --> 00:30:58,920 You actually have to - not so much worry 691 00:30:58,960 --> 00:31:00,720 and take care of everyone else. Yeah. 692 00:31:00,760 --> 00:31:03,240 What does it feel like to just say, "What about me?" 693 00:31:03,280 --> 00:31:04,720 SOFTLY: OK. That... 694 00:31:04,760 --> 00:31:05,920 That doesn't feel natural. 695 00:31:05,960 --> 00:31:07,640 Of course, it's the opposite of the habit! 696 00:31:07,680 --> 00:31:10,520 The habit is "Are you OK? Everybody OK? You OK?" Yeah. 697 00:31:10,560 --> 00:31:11,840 "What about me?" Yeah. 698 00:31:11,880 --> 00:31:14,000 See if you can say it with some... OK. 699 00:31:15,320 --> 00:31:16,720 What about me? 700 00:31:16,760 --> 00:31:19,200 Can you do it a little bit stronger now? 701 00:31:19,240 --> 00:31:21,040 What about me? 702 00:31:21,080 --> 00:31:22,400 Yeah. 703 00:31:22,440 --> 00:31:23,920 You deserve to be angry. 704 00:31:23,960 --> 00:31:25,240 Like, what about you? 705 00:31:25,280 --> 00:31:27,600 Yeah. You know what I mean? OK. It's your turn. 706 00:31:27,640 --> 00:31:29,080 Yeah. Yeah? OK. 707 00:31:30,560 --> 00:31:32,360 Ahh. 708 00:31:32,400 --> 00:31:34,120 Go, "Ahh," a little bit. 709 00:31:34,160 --> 00:31:35,680 Ahh. Ah! Ahh-ahh! 710 00:31:35,720 --> 00:31:37,320 THEY LAUGH 711 00:31:38,440 --> 00:31:40,400 What about me? Yes! 712 00:31:40,440 --> 00:31:41,920 "What about me?!" 713 00:31:41,960 --> 00:31:44,320 What about me? Yeah! "What about me?" 714 00:31:44,360 --> 00:31:46,680 What about me? That's right. 715 00:31:46,720 --> 00:31:48,800 I feel like I'm going to need a punching bag in a minute. 716 00:31:48,840 --> 00:31:50,720 Wh...No, no, no... EMMA LAUGHS 717 00:31:50,760 --> 00:31:51,920 Oh, my God, yes! 718 00:31:51,960 --> 00:31:53,480 I can be one. 719 00:31:53,520 --> 00:31:55,520 That's all I've ever wanted you to say! 720 00:31:57,040 --> 00:31:59,040 OK, right, let me strip off. 721 00:31:59,080 --> 00:32:01,320 Right. Oh, God, OK. 722 00:32:01,360 --> 00:32:02,480 I'm going to push it out. 723 00:32:02,520 --> 00:32:04,200 "What about me?" And then punch it! 724 00:32:04,240 --> 00:32:05,320 OK. 725 00:32:05,360 --> 00:32:06,840 Yeah. Yes! "What about me?" 726 00:32:06,880 --> 00:32:08,760 What about me? Yeah, more. 727 00:32:08,800 --> 00:32:10,400 This is my body. Yes! 728 00:32:10,440 --> 00:32:12,360 This is my body. Yes! Yes, girl! 729 00:32:12,400 --> 00:32:14,000 "It's my turn." What about me? 730 00:32:14,040 --> 00:32:17,360 Fuck you if you have ever made me feel shit, 731 00:32:17,400 --> 00:32:20,320 and fuck everyone who's taken my kindness for weakness! 732 00:32:20,360 --> 00:32:21,480 Yes! 733 00:32:21,520 --> 00:32:22,920 It's all about me. 734 00:32:22,960 --> 00:32:24,240 It's all about you! 735 00:32:24,280 --> 00:32:26,040 Fuck you. Fuck you! 736 00:32:26,080 --> 00:32:28,360 Sorry, just need a sec. Yeah. Whoo! 737 00:32:32,960 --> 00:32:35,320 The exercise stirs up old emotion. 738 00:32:37,040 --> 00:32:38,360 When I was seven, 739 00:32:38,400 --> 00:32:41,720 I did have a really horrific incident 740 00:32:41,760 --> 00:32:45,120 with another child of them touching me inappropriately. 741 00:32:45,160 --> 00:32:47,560 It kind of shut me off 742 00:32:47,600 --> 00:32:51,600 and brought up this fear of sex 743 00:32:51,640 --> 00:32:54,680 and that was so horrible. 744 00:32:54,720 --> 00:32:59,000 So, I want to move past that horrific experience, 745 00:32:59,040 --> 00:33:02,320 but it is so difficult. 746 00:33:02,360 --> 00:33:04,120 It's like a piece of glass, 747 00:33:04,160 --> 00:33:05,560 you can shatter some glass, 748 00:33:05,600 --> 00:33:07,280 but even if you put it back together, 749 00:33:07,320 --> 00:33:08,800 it will never be the same again. 750 00:33:10,720 --> 00:33:13,000 Just imagine little Emma looking up at you 751 00:33:13,040 --> 00:33:15,680 and saying, "Thank you so much." 752 00:33:15,720 --> 00:33:20,040 Thank you f-for looking out for me 753 00:33:20,080 --> 00:33:23,640 and being the strong independent woman 754 00:33:23,680 --> 00:33:25,600 that I always wanted to be. 755 00:33:25,640 --> 00:33:26,840 SOFTLY: Yeah. 756 00:33:26,880 --> 00:33:28,680 TEARFULLY: And you should be proud of yourself 757 00:33:28,720 --> 00:33:32,360 cos you are so stronger than you think and wiser than you know. 758 00:33:42,960 --> 00:33:44,200 How did it go? 759 00:33:44,240 --> 00:33:45,480 Had a really good session. 760 00:33:45,520 --> 00:33:48,640 I feel like Celeste released some new energy inside of me 761 00:33:48,680 --> 00:33:49,920 that I didn't realise I had. 762 00:33:49,960 --> 00:33:51,800 Right now, I feel on top of the world. 763 00:33:51,840 --> 00:33:58,400 I feel like a brand-new complete version of Emma, 764 00:33:58,440 --> 00:34:01,800 and I'm not going to let people's negative input impact me. 765 00:34:03,280 --> 00:34:07,880 I feel like now I am more open to forming new connections 766 00:34:07,920 --> 00:34:09,520 which I haven't taken before. 767 00:34:11,000 --> 00:34:13,840 It's not just Emma who's feeling like a new person. 768 00:34:13,880 --> 00:34:15,960 After his session with Kat yesterday, 769 00:34:16,000 --> 00:34:18,760 Tom has been reflecting on gender identity. 770 00:34:18,800 --> 00:34:20,000 I think my next steps with this, 771 00:34:20,040 --> 00:34:23,480 I probably will tell some more people about my gender fluidity, 772 00:34:23,520 --> 00:34:26,840 so then I don't constantly have this sort of barrier up all the time, 773 00:34:26,880 --> 00:34:29,200 or like I'm not hiding part of myself any more - 774 00:34:29,240 --> 00:34:32,000 which I'm constantly having to do here at the moment. 775 00:34:32,040 --> 00:34:33,640 Do you want to sit here? Yes. 776 00:34:33,680 --> 00:34:35,920 After her own issues around identity, 777 00:34:35,960 --> 00:34:38,120 Tom decides to confide in Taylor. 778 00:34:41,240 --> 00:34:44,160 Coming here, I've been learning a lot more about my own identity. 779 00:34:44,200 --> 00:34:46,040 Uh-huh. I've found that as well. 780 00:34:46,080 --> 00:34:47,360 BOTH LAUGH Yeah! 781 00:34:47,400 --> 00:34:50,520 Yeah. It really puts it into perspective. It does, 100%. 782 00:34:50,560 --> 00:34:52,800 When I had my make-up put on me... Yes. 783 00:34:52,840 --> 00:34:54,920 ..and then I had to take it off, and I felt a bit, 784 00:34:54,960 --> 00:34:58,120 "Oh, no, I really wanted to keep that on." You did say that. 785 00:34:58,160 --> 00:35:01,280 It got me thinking a lot about my own sort of identity. 786 00:35:01,320 --> 00:35:02,640 I... I'm not sure. 787 00:35:02,680 --> 00:35:04,840 I think if gender is, like, on a spectrum... Yes. 788 00:35:04,880 --> 00:35:09,440 ..I'd say I'm exactly between a he-him and they-them. 789 00:35:09,480 --> 00:35:12,320 Yes. So... Some masculine, but not bro. Yeah. 790 00:35:12,360 --> 00:35:15,720 Yeah. Do you still identify as straight - like you like girls? 791 00:35:15,760 --> 00:35:17,920 Yes, I still very much like women. 792 00:35:17,960 --> 00:35:20,440 Doesn't matter, like, who I go to bed with, 793 00:35:20,480 --> 00:35:22,040 it's like who I go to bed AS. 794 00:35:22,080 --> 00:35:24,760 Yeah. Of course! Yeah. Who do I go to bed as? 795 00:35:24,800 --> 00:35:26,440 Yeah. Oh, how exciting. 796 00:35:26,480 --> 00:35:27,720 Yay. How exciting. 797 00:35:27,760 --> 00:35:28,920 Thank you. 798 00:35:32,720 --> 00:35:35,040 It's late afternoon on Virgin Island... 799 00:35:35,080 --> 00:35:36,840 You all right? S'up? 800 00:35:36,880 --> 00:35:40,440 ..and this evening, the group will pair up for date night. 801 00:35:40,480 --> 00:35:42,040 So how we going to do this today? 802 00:35:42,080 --> 00:35:43,680 I dunno. Is this my first proper date? 803 00:35:43,720 --> 00:35:45,000 Do I class this as a date? 804 00:35:45,040 --> 00:35:46,120 We can make it a date. 805 00:35:46,160 --> 00:35:48,400 We'll see how... We'll see what happens. 806 00:35:48,440 --> 00:35:51,240 One thing I don't want it to be is I don't want it to be awkward. 807 00:35:51,280 --> 00:35:52,520 Why would it be awkward? 808 00:35:52,560 --> 00:35:54,280 I dunno, I feel like I'm just, like, an awkward person. 809 00:35:54,320 --> 00:35:55,680 No, we might fall in love after this. 810 00:35:55,720 --> 00:35:57,040 Really? 811 00:35:57,080 --> 00:35:58,240 Maybe. 812 00:35:58,280 --> 00:36:00,120 Maybe? Sometimes when you look at me, I do... 813 00:36:00,160 --> 00:36:01,680 I do feel like, are you just looking at me randomly? 814 00:36:01,720 --> 00:36:03,680 Or are you looking at me? 815 00:36:03,720 --> 00:36:05,600 Maybe I shouldn't be overthinking it. 816 00:36:05,640 --> 00:36:06,720 HE SNORTS 817 00:36:06,760 --> 00:36:09,160 You seen the way you just looked at me there! 818 00:36:09,200 --> 00:36:11,120 Ah, Emma. 819 00:36:11,160 --> 00:36:12,880 After her session with Celeste, 820 00:36:12,920 --> 00:36:16,360 Emma's new-found positivity is taking effect. 821 00:36:16,400 --> 00:36:19,360 You do realise, like, my dream woman will have to be someone who, 822 00:36:19,400 --> 00:36:21,480 like, goes to India with me and has that dream wedding. 823 00:36:21,520 --> 00:36:23,840 Oh, my God, yeah. You would look really good in a sari. 824 00:36:23,880 --> 00:36:25,320 No, I actually would love that. 825 00:36:25,360 --> 00:36:27,120 Mmm. That's fantastic. What colour would my dress be? 826 00:36:28,560 --> 00:36:29,840 I can pic... Like, red? 827 00:36:29,880 --> 00:36:31,360 Yeah, I picture it red. 828 00:36:31,400 --> 00:36:32,480 Really? 829 00:36:32,520 --> 00:36:33,600 Yeah, I picture it red. 830 00:36:33,640 --> 00:36:35,000 I don't know whether red would suit me. 831 00:36:35,040 --> 00:36:36,320 I think it would. 832 00:36:36,360 --> 00:36:38,440 I think any colour would suit you, why not? 833 00:36:50,840 --> 00:36:52,480 Now she's opened the flood gates... 834 00:36:52,520 --> 00:36:54,200 EMMA SCREAMS 835 00:36:54,240 --> 00:36:55,520 CHEERING 836 00:36:55,560 --> 00:36:56,960 ..Emma's letting herself go. 837 00:36:57,000 --> 00:36:59,120 Even went through to the second layer. 838 00:36:59,160 --> 00:37:00,200 CHEERING 839 00:37:00,240 --> 00:37:01,960 Later we'll all pose for a calendar. 840 00:37:02,000 --> 00:37:03,520 LAUGHTER 841 00:37:04,840 --> 00:37:06,520 And so are the boys. 842 00:37:06,560 --> 00:37:08,240 What do you guys, like, like? 843 00:37:08,280 --> 00:37:09,440 What do you mean? 844 00:37:09,480 --> 00:37:11,120 What do you like? But that's such a weird question. 845 00:37:11,160 --> 00:37:12,600 What do you mean? How do you want to have sex? 846 00:37:12,640 --> 00:37:14,680 I know what I want. I want to feel powerful. 847 00:37:14,720 --> 00:37:17,800 I mean, yeah, I'd like it if a girl rides on top of me, sure. 848 00:37:17,840 --> 00:37:19,000 I would like to be dominated. 849 00:37:19,040 --> 00:37:20,960 I think that's what I like. You like that? 850 00:37:21,000 --> 00:37:22,520 Yeah. That's interesting! 851 00:37:22,560 --> 00:37:24,720 But that's because I'm like a shy virgin. 852 00:37:24,760 --> 00:37:27,000 I think I want something really boring - like missionary. 853 00:37:27,040 --> 00:37:28,720 That's me. 854 00:37:28,760 --> 00:37:30,840 After being rejected earlier, 855 00:37:30,880 --> 00:37:34,560 the confidence phase of the course has yet to help Ben. 856 00:37:34,600 --> 00:37:37,720 I think what's scary about the whole approaching somebody in real life 857 00:37:37,760 --> 00:37:39,080 is the prospect of rejection. 858 00:37:39,120 --> 00:37:40,680 It's just awkward. 859 00:37:40,720 --> 00:37:44,960 Ben struggles to turn dates from the vertical to the horizontal. 860 00:37:45,000 --> 00:37:49,120 So the experts want to see if they can teach him how. 861 00:37:49,160 --> 00:37:50,760 Coming out of this and feeling more confident 862 00:37:50,800 --> 00:37:51,800 is why I am doing it. 863 00:37:54,440 --> 00:37:55,800 JOY: Let's get a little closer. 864 00:37:56,960 --> 00:37:58,600 And just so our hands are touching. 865 00:37:59,960 --> 00:38:02,680 {\an8}Your job is to stay present with the touch. 866 00:38:02,720 --> 00:38:05,320 How do I make the first move, the first physical move? 867 00:38:05,360 --> 00:38:07,360 That's quite a bit step and something I always worry about. 868 00:38:07,400 --> 00:38:10,920 If there is a moment that you feel a connection, 869 00:38:10,960 --> 00:38:13,680 you might just look at her and be like, 870 00:38:13,720 --> 00:38:14,960 "You're so cute. 871 00:38:16,960 --> 00:38:17,960 "You know?" 872 00:38:19,400 --> 00:38:20,480 Like that? 873 00:38:20,520 --> 00:38:24,560 Yeah. Yeah, it has to feel like it's time, though. 874 00:38:24,600 --> 00:38:25,680 Natural. Yeah. 875 00:38:25,720 --> 00:38:29,280 When you're confident, that's one of the most important things. 876 00:38:29,320 --> 00:38:30,360 Mmm. 877 00:38:31,480 --> 00:38:33,000 With the basics covered, 878 00:38:33,040 --> 00:38:35,520 Ben takes the giant leap to the bed. 879 00:38:39,400 --> 00:38:40,600 That's nice. 880 00:38:46,080 --> 00:38:47,920 That's really nice, Ben. 881 00:38:52,080 --> 00:38:53,800 Yeah. 882 00:38:53,840 --> 00:38:57,080 Slowly, Ben's confidence seems to be rising. 883 00:39:05,560 --> 00:39:06,800 And whatever you do, 884 00:39:06,840 --> 00:39:08,920 don't try and get it right. 885 00:39:08,960 --> 00:39:11,720 There's no getting it right, there's only exploring. 886 00:39:16,120 --> 00:39:19,440 Squeeze me if that helps you to feel more of me. 887 00:39:27,760 --> 00:39:29,320 See you soon. See you soon. 888 00:39:29,360 --> 00:39:33,360 What I found most helpful is that she can help me get out of my head 889 00:39:33,400 --> 00:39:35,120 and get more in the moment. 890 00:39:35,160 --> 00:39:37,640 I just feel like I'm going to be a lot more confident going into 891 00:39:37,680 --> 00:39:38,960 these sorts of situations now. 892 00:39:41,720 --> 00:39:43,560 After Ben's confidence boost... 893 00:39:47,280 --> 00:39:50,200 ..the whole group get themselves ready for date night. 894 00:39:51,800 --> 00:39:54,320 This feels like a bigger deal than I thought it was going to be. 895 00:39:54,360 --> 00:39:55,640 Ooh, a tie. 896 00:39:55,680 --> 00:39:57,240 You're looking good, though, dude. Yeah. 897 00:39:57,280 --> 00:39:58,480 We all look good. Yeah. 898 00:39:58,520 --> 00:40:00,200 Who knew virgins could be so sexy? 899 00:40:00,240 --> 00:40:01,680 CHUCKLING 900 00:40:01,720 --> 00:40:03,240 SHE IMITATES SIZZLING 901 00:40:05,280 --> 00:40:07,200 Ooh, lovely! 902 00:40:07,240 --> 00:40:10,560 The experts have paired them up, ready to test their date skills. 903 00:40:10,600 --> 00:40:12,920 This is nice. This IS nice. 904 00:40:12,960 --> 00:40:14,560 Ladies first. 905 00:40:14,600 --> 00:40:15,960 Too kind. 906 00:40:16,000 --> 00:40:19,320 And they've hit the island's most romantic spots. 907 00:40:19,360 --> 00:40:20,640 There you go, my lady. 908 00:40:20,680 --> 00:40:22,840 Thank you very much, thank you. OK. 909 00:40:22,880 --> 00:40:25,280 You look lovely. Aw, thank you. 910 00:40:25,320 --> 00:40:27,200 I was worried I'd be overdressed and I was like changing... 911 00:40:27,240 --> 00:40:28,720 I was worried about the same thing! 912 00:40:28,760 --> 00:40:30,320 Having come out as gay, 913 00:40:30,360 --> 00:40:32,800 Taylor's dating expert Aisha, 914 00:40:32,840 --> 00:40:36,560 giving Ben the chance to carry on where he left off with Joy. 915 00:40:36,600 --> 00:40:39,680 How have you been since we last met? 916 00:40:39,720 --> 00:40:41,200 Yeah, fine, waiting for you. 917 00:40:41,240 --> 00:40:43,120 You're late. THEY CHUCKLE 918 00:40:43,160 --> 00:40:44,560 I hope this is Vodka. 919 00:40:44,600 --> 00:40:45,960 BOTH LAUGH 920 00:40:46,000 --> 00:40:47,640 So, do I, actually. Cheers. Cheers. 921 00:40:47,680 --> 00:40:49,920 As they sit down to chat up... 922 00:40:49,960 --> 00:40:51,720 You all right? Nice to meet you. 923 00:40:51,760 --> 00:40:52,880 Nice to meet you. 924 00:40:52,920 --> 00:40:57,040 ..they must remember Celeste and Danielle's three steps of dating. 925 00:40:57,080 --> 00:41:00,360 I wanted to know actually, what's it like in Glasgow? 926 00:41:00,400 --> 00:41:03,160 Is it just full of, like, Frankie Boyle posters? 927 00:41:03,200 --> 00:41:06,000 Yeah. He's, like, actually like our mascot. 928 00:41:06,040 --> 00:41:09,000 THEY LAUGH 929 00:41:09,040 --> 00:41:10,680 What state did you grow up in? 930 00:41:10,720 --> 00:41:13,200 Florida. Oh, Florida! I never would have guessed. 931 00:41:13,240 --> 00:41:15,560 Really? Apparently Florida people are crazy. 932 00:41:15,600 --> 00:41:17,640 SHE LAUGHS Does that mean you're crazy? 933 00:41:17,680 --> 00:41:19,600 Erm... I think I am a little. 934 00:41:20,960 --> 00:41:22,800 We may be about to get rained on. 935 00:41:22,840 --> 00:41:24,320 Erm... You don't like getting wet? 936 00:41:24,360 --> 00:41:26,080 I thought that was your whole thing. 937 00:41:26,120 --> 00:41:29,120 BOTH LAUGH Wow! Ooh! 938 00:41:29,160 --> 00:41:32,520 I appreciate that, I appreciate you taking it sexual. 939 00:41:34,280 --> 00:41:35,600 Step one, 940 00:41:35,640 --> 00:41:37,960 giving an in-the-moment compliment. 941 00:41:38,000 --> 00:41:39,560 You look nice. Thanks. 942 00:41:39,600 --> 00:41:40,800 You look very nice. How nice? 943 00:41:40,840 --> 00:41:42,080 Out of ten? 944 00:41:42,120 --> 00:41:43,120 Ten. 945 00:41:44,280 --> 00:41:45,840 I don't know what to say. NERVOUS LAUGHTER 946 00:41:45,880 --> 00:41:47,600 Me neither. Bit awkward here. 947 00:41:47,640 --> 00:41:49,360 Shall we look for some dolphins? 948 00:41:49,400 --> 00:41:50,920 I like how rosy your cheeks are. 949 00:41:50,960 --> 00:41:52,480 Thank you. 950 00:41:52,520 --> 00:41:54,640 It's the one thing I hate about myself. Is it? 951 00:41:54,680 --> 00:41:57,320 Yeah. Oh, well I'm glad I bought it up, then. 952 00:41:57,360 --> 00:41:58,600 THEY CHUCKLE 953 00:42:00,080 --> 00:42:01,320 You have very nice earrings. 954 00:42:01,360 --> 00:42:02,560 You like them? Yeah! 955 00:42:02,600 --> 00:42:03,920 Thank you, my friend made them. 956 00:42:03,960 --> 00:42:05,480 You've definitely got a good fashion sense. 957 00:42:05,520 --> 00:42:07,040 Yeah? Better than I've got. 958 00:42:07,080 --> 00:42:09,360 Thank you, thank you so much. All these compliments! 959 00:42:09,400 --> 00:42:11,280 I don't know what to do with them all. 960 00:42:11,320 --> 00:42:12,760 THEY LAUGH 961 00:42:12,800 --> 00:42:14,400 Step two is the look. 962 00:42:14,440 --> 00:42:16,120 I've practised the look, I've practised the look. 963 00:42:16,160 --> 00:42:17,360 Oh, yes. OK. 964 00:42:17,400 --> 00:42:19,240 I'm going to... OK, give me... Feel my energy. Give me the look. 965 00:42:19,280 --> 00:42:21,280 Feel my energy. I'm going to turn away and look back at you. 966 00:42:21,320 --> 00:42:23,040 OK. OK, now, turn around. OK. 967 00:42:24,720 --> 00:42:25,840 THEY SNORT 968 00:42:27,160 --> 00:42:28,360 Goddamn it! 969 00:42:28,400 --> 00:42:31,440 Finally, followed by the kiss. 970 00:42:31,480 --> 00:42:33,440 You're a beautiful girl. Oh, stop it. 971 00:42:33,480 --> 00:42:34,680 You really are. 972 00:42:34,720 --> 00:42:36,520 You're a beautiful guy, inside and out. 973 00:42:36,560 --> 00:42:37,800 SHE GIGGLES 974 00:42:37,840 --> 00:42:39,120 Aw! 975 00:42:39,160 --> 00:42:40,840 But for one couple... 976 00:42:40,880 --> 00:42:42,120 My niche is, like, weight loss. 977 00:42:42,160 --> 00:42:45,000 I like your motivation to want to do personal trainer 978 00:42:45,040 --> 00:42:46,320 and want to help other people. 979 00:42:46,360 --> 00:42:48,160 Yeah. I like that about you. Thanks. 980 00:42:48,200 --> 00:42:51,200 ..date practice is perfect. 981 00:42:51,240 --> 00:42:53,000 Are you OK? I'm good. 982 00:42:53,040 --> 00:42:54,400 Mmm. You sure? 983 00:42:54,440 --> 00:42:56,400 Yeah, I'm all right. 984 00:42:56,440 --> 00:42:57,600 Do I make you nervous? 985 00:42:57,640 --> 00:42:58,920 A little bit. Don't be. 986 00:42:58,960 --> 00:43:01,280 You don't need to be nervous. 987 00:43:01,320 --> 00:43:03,880 I need to try and be a bit more confident with women. 988 00:43:03,920 --> 00:43:06,480 My family and our Hindu culture still believe 989 00:43:06,520 --> 00:43:08,000 in, like, arranged marriages. 990 00:43:08,040 --> 00:43:10,320 I don't see that as a bad thing, 991 00:43:10,360 --> 00:43:13,800 but I just don't think I'd ever put myself in that position. 992 00:43:13,840 --> 00:43:15,640 Once I'm a lot more confident in myself, 993 00:43:15,680 --> 00:43:17,720 I think the type of path I want to go down 994 00:43:17,760 --> 00:43:19,160 would be a love marriage, 995 00:43:19,200 --> 00:43:22,360 but if I don't put myself out there, it definitely won't happen. 996 00:43:23,720 --> 00:43:24,920 Can I take your hand? 997 00:43:24,960 --> 00:43:26,200 Sure, let's do it. 998 00:43:26,240 --> 00:43:28,320 I'm just going to... I have cold hands, though. 999 00:43:28,360 --> 00:43:30,000 No, it's OK. They're OK. 1000 00:43:30,040 --> 00:43:31,920 You have nice hands, though. Thank you. 1001 00:43:33,720 --> 00:43:36,040 You've got nice skin, haven't you? I feel like I've gotten darker - 1002 00:43:36,080 --> 00:43:37,840 by being here more. To be honest, you actually have. 1003 00:43:37,880 --> 00:43:39,000 But you're a nice colour. 1004 00:43:44,440 --> 00:43:46,200 You OK? Yeah, I'm all right. Are you OK? 1005 00:43:46,240 --> 00:43:48,520 Yeah, I'm good. Yeah? I'm all good in the hood. Yeah. 1006 00:43:53,320 --> 00:43:54,560 Look, you can tell how cold I am, 1007 00:43:54,600 --> 00:43:56,040 cos that one's going a bit purple. 1008 00:43:56,080 --> 00:43:57,960 Yeah. You are going a bit purple, aren't you? 1009 00:43:58,000 --> 00:43:59,840 Maybe you can warm them up for me? 1010 00:43:59,880 --> 00:44:01,520 Do you want me to warm them up for you? Yeah. 1011 00:44:01,560 --> 00:44:02,720 I give you a little peck? 1012 00:44:02,760 --> 00:44:03,800 Yeah, go on. 1013 00:44:05,360 --> 00:44:06,560 Beautiful. 1014 00:44:06,600 --> 00:44:08,320 How was that? Yeah, lovely. 1015 00:44:08,360 --> 00:44:09,400 Yeah? Good for you? 1016 00:44:09,440 --> 00:44:11,160 'Course! Good. 1017 00:44:11,200 --> 00:44:12,680 We got on quite well 1018 00:44:12,720 --> 00:44:15,320 and I'm just looking forward to getting to know him more. 1019 00:44:15,360 --> 00:44:18,400 I don't know whether it could be a bit romantic, 1020 00:44:18,440 --> 00:44:23,280 but I've never had a connection with anyone like I do with Viraj. 1021 00:44:23,320 --> 00:44:25,640 Enjoy that? Yeah, no, it was good, actually. Did you? 1022 00:44:25,680 --> 00:44:26,880 Yeah. I'll probably... 1023 00:44:26,920 --> 00:44:28,320 Oh, sh... 1024 00:44:28,360 --> 00:44:30,200 That was awkward. 1025 00:44:30,240 --> 00:44:32,320 I feel really great, I feel confident, 1026 00:44:32,360 --> 00:44:34,800 and I feel like I've pushed outside like a massive barrier 1027 00:44:34,840 --> 00:44:36,800 with me with like going on dates. 1028 00:44:36,840 --> 00:44:38,280 She's just an amazing girl 1029 00:44:38,320 --> 00:44:41,440 and I really glad that I was with her for that date. 1030 00:44:41,480 --> 00:44:42,640 You want to hold my hand? 1031 00:44:42,680 --> 00:44:44,480 You want to make it like an official date? 1032 00:44:44,520 --> 00:44:45,680 LAUGHS: Yeah! 1033 00:44:48,920 --> 00:44:50,840 And with that, it's time to celebrate 1034 00:44:50,880 --> 00:44:53,240 the end of another phase of the course. 1035 00:44:53,280 --> 00:44:55,280 CHEERING 1036 00:44:56,360 --> 00:44:57,720 Are you feeling confident? 1037 00:44:57,760 --> 00:45:00,240 GROUP: Yes. 1038 00:45:00,280 --> 00:45:02,760 My confidence has definitely grown over the last few days. 1039 00:45:02,800 --> 00:45:06,200 I've kind of been on a journey in terms of my gender. 1040 00:45:06,240 --> 00:45:08,680 Not quite sure who I am, 1041 00:45:08,720 --> 00:45:11,240 but I know at least I'm Tom. TOM CHUCKLES 1042 00:45:11,280 --> 00:45:12,960 GROUP: Cheers! 1043 00:45:13,000 --> 00:45:14,920 CHEERING 1044 00:45:14,960 --> 00:45:18,480 Over the last few days, my confidence has skyrocketed 1045 00:45:18,520 --> 00:45:20,760 so much more than I thought it ever would, 1046 00:45:20,800 --> 00:45:21,920 and I'm really looking forward 1047 00:45:21,960 --> 00:45:24,920 to where the journey may take me next. 1048 00:45:24,960 --> 00:45:28,440 It's so exciting and it's so nice to feel like these new feelings 1049 00:45:28,480 --> 00:45:29,760 that I'm feeling. 1050 00:45:29,800 --> 00:45:32,560 Now, that I'm kind of... I know myself a bit better, 1051 00:45:32,600 --> 00:45:35,360 the fear is gone. So I'm hoping I can progress faster 1052 00:45:35,400 --> 00:45:38,160 now that I'm not being held back by my own fear. 1053 00:45:38,200 --> 00:45:42,480 Tomorrow we are taking it to the next level. 1054 00:45:42,520 --> 00:45:43,720 Oh, my God. CHUCKLING 1055 00:45:43,760 --> 00:45:45,480 Are you ready? LAUGHTER 1056 00:45:47,520 --> 00:45:49,040 We've come on a journey together 1057 00:45:49,080 --> 00:45:50,960 and you never know what's coming next, 1058 00:45:51,000 --> 00:45:52,920 and I just hope we don't go in tomorrow 1059 00:45:52,960 --> 00:45:54,440 and, like, they're all naked or something. 1060 00:45:54,480 --> 00:45:55,480 That would be quite scary. 1061 00:45:56,880 --> 00:45:58,000 Next Time... 1062 00:45:58,040 --> 00:45:59,240 So, this is my body. 1063 00:45:59,280 --> 00:46:00,880 For fuck's sake. 1064 00:46:00,920 --> 00:46:03,560 ..the course enters its toughest phase yet. 1065 00:46:03,600 --> 00:46:05,240 We're going to invite you 1066 00:46:05,280 --> 00:46:08,720 one by one to show yourself out. 1067 00:46:08,760 --> 00:46:10,360 Do you know what? YOLO. 1068 00:46:10,400 --> 00:46:13,120 CHEERING 1069 00:46:14,200 --> 00:46:15,640 And the one-on-one's... 1070 00:46:15,680 --> 00:46:18,120 What's the feeling in your body? The sensation of it? 1071 00:46:18,160 --> 00:46:19,600 Disgusting. 1072 00:46:19,640 --> 00:46:22,760 ..push the virgins further than ever before. 1073 00:46:22,800 --> 00:46:24,200 {\an8}Just, like, explore. 1074 00:46:24,240 --> 00:46:25,600 THEY LAUGH 1075 00:46:49,440 --> 00:46:52,320 Subtitles by Red Bee Media 1075 00:46:53,305 --> 00:47:53,266 Do you want subtitles for any video? -=[ ai.OpenSubtitles.com ]=-